Ejaculatory disorders referes to any problem encountered during ejaculation, be it too fast, too slow, or unable to ejaculate at all. About 33% of males are reported to be experiencing premature ejaculation while about 4% of men are experiencing delay in ejaculation.
Ejaculation is the release of semen from the penis during orgasm. If ejaculation happens sooner than you or your partner anticipates, this is know as Premature Ejaculation. Occasional episodes of PE are not considered alarming. However, if the main symptom of PE is the regular inability to delay ejaculation for more than a minute during intercourse, medical attention is advised. PE can be categorised as “lifelong” or “acquired”. Lifelong (primary) PE means that you have always had this experience while acquired (secondary) PE would mean that you have had longer lasting ejaculations previously, but have now developed PE. While the cause of PE is largely psychological or emotional, PE can also be cased by abnormal levels of certain hormones, such as testosterone, or chemicals produced by nerve cells called neurotransmitters.
Has been persistent enough to cause relationship problems
Makes you conscious
Keeps you from pursuing intimate relationships
The two types of delayed ejaculations are Primary and Secondary delayed ejaculation.
Similarly to PE, primary delayed ejaculation happens to men who have always had difficulty ejaculating.
Secondary delayed ejaculation, on the other hand, happens to who have previously no issues with intercourse but have newly developed this. The causes to this can be divided into physical and psychological factors.
Physical factors include:
Side effects from medications, in particular anti-depressants
Alcohol and ilicit drug use
Nerve damage or mechanical pelvic injury
Hormonal defeciencies such as low testosterone
Psychological factors include:
Mood disorders
Relationship problems
Performance anxiety
Existing culture or religious taboos regarding sexual intercourse
Early sexual experiences
History of sexual abuse
Depression
Anxiety leading to PE
Guilty feelings that cause the tendency to rush through sexual encounters
Relationship problems
The example of biological causes are as such:-
Abnormal hormone levels
Abnormal level of neutrotransmitters (brain stimulatory chemicals)
Inflammation or infection of the prostate or urethra
Erectile dysfunction
The pelvic floor muscles are muscles that help control ejaculations located the lower pelvic region.
To identify and feel your pelvic floor muscles, concentrate on stopping urination in midstream or use the muscles that keep you from passing gas. Once you understand where the muscles are, you can practice exercises known as “Kegel Exercise”. You may do them standing, sitting, or lying down.
To do Kegel maneuvers:
1. Tighten your pelvic floor muscles to a count of three.
2. Relax for a count of three
3. Do this several times in a row throughout a day and work your way up to three sets of 10 repititions a day.
Decreasing the sensitivity of your penis during intercourse may also help.
For example, you may wear a condom during intercourse may help. In addition to that, topical anaesthetic numbing agents can help reduce the sensory stimulation and delay ejaculation.
Uncircumcised individuals may also consider circumcision as the foreskin is a house to many sensory fibres that contribute to sensory stimulation during intercourse.
Many different classes of medication can help delay orgasm. These medications might be prescribed for either on-demand or daily use, and might be prescribed alone or in combination with other treatments. One must consult a physician prior to use of any of the oral medication. The commonly used medications are such as:-
Antidepressants, particularly Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRI) (eg, dapoxetine, paroxetine, sertraline, citalopram)
Phosphodiesterase type 5 (PDE5) inhibitors (eg, sildenafil, tadalafil etc.)
Other agents (eg, tramadol).
No recommended surgical therapy currently exists.
Psychological causes of DE:-
Depression, anxiety or other mental health conditions
Relationship problems due to poor communication or other concerns
Performance anxiety
Poor body image
Cultural belief
Differences between reality of sex with a partner and sexual fantasies
Medication/Substance causes of DE:-
Antidepressants
Certain high blood pressure medications
Certain diuretics
Some antipsychotic medications
Some anti-seizure medications
Alcohol – excessive alcohol consumption
Certain birth defects that affect the male reproductive system
Prior pelvic injury
Urinary tract infections
Prostate Surgery
Neurological pathologies, such as diabetic neuropathy, stroke or spinal cord damage
Hormone-related conditions, such as low thyroid hormone or low testosterone levels
Retrograde ejaculation, a condition in which the semen flows backward into the bladder than outside the penis
Psychotherapy, or psychological counselling, on the other hand, is another beneficial treatment, particularly if there is an underlying mental health issue. This might involve seeing a psychologist or sex therapist – a mental health counsellor who specializes in talk therapy for sexual problems.